Assertiveness

You know that moment when someone says or does something you don’t like, and you think, “I should say something…” — but you don’t? Maybe you don’t want to seem rude. Maybe you’re worried they’ll get angry. Or perhaps you simply don’t know how to put your thoughts into words. Whatever the reason, speaking up […]

Being assertive and being aggressive can look surprisingly similar from the outside. Both involve speaking up, expressing opinions, and standing your ground. The big difference is how you treat the other person while doing it. Assertiveness means being clear and confident while still respecting other people’s feelings and boundaries. Aggression is more about forcing your […]